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This is my weekly installment of “writing about writing,” in which I scan the world for material to help other writers. Today I discuss a blog post about how to deal with criticism….
Many writers have a hard time learning how to deal with criticism. If that describes you, let me recommend a recent blog post from the Write Life site.
Under the heading, “How to Become a Better Writer: 4 Ways to Deal With Criticism,” the Write Life team posts some excellent suggestions. Here is a summary:
1. Separate yourself from your writing
People tend to take criticism personally, but it’s not about you, it’s about your writing. Two different things!
2. Listen actively without defending
You’ll probably be eager to defend yourself. Instead, embrace silence. This is a time for reflection, not argument!
3. Filter feedback appropriately
Some feedback is good and helpful. Some is not. Learn to tell the difference and feel free to ignore the stuff that doesn’t help.
4. Use criticism as an opportunity
We all learn by making mistakes. Use the criticism you receive as a chance to grow and to learn.
When someone takes the time to read your work and provide feedback, they’re giving you a gift, even though it might not feel that way. Their perspective can help you see blind spots in your writing and improve your craft.
I’ve written another piece on how to deal with criticism of your writing and I encourage you to read it here. It goes into much greater detail.
